Quote Originally Posted by Posh View Post

Really hot, huh? Exactly how hot are you? Why is that men never look at the merchandise THEY'RE trying to move?
Fact:
Women don't care about the physical attractiveness of a man as much as men care about the physical attractiveness of a women.

That doesn't mean a man can be messy or whatnot with what he wears or his facial hair or whatnot, but generally he does not need to be looking like he is a body type from a magazine in order to get with a women who is likewise.


Quote Originally Posted by roflwaffle View Post
well.. i dont wnat to stick up for the guy, since i dont know what his respsone was, but

tbh, no matter how it was delivered 'oh thats nice' regardless of how delivered, with nothing else given... gives the message of 'who cares, not interested'

i mean 'oh thats nice' followed by *anything* that is related to the subject, thats fine

but just oh tahts nice, then just let it drop...

for some people, that might just naturally come off as a big screw you


'hey what do you do'
'im the president of the US'
'oh thats nice!' (given with due respect)
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'thats all you have to say? nothing else? are you shallow? show *some* freaking reaction.. good or otherwise.. pleas for the love of christ have a real opinion... anything... just say something'

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but thats just me.. 'oh thats nice' is a dismissive comment no matter how you look at it, if not followed by anything else

even if not intended as such..

i mean.. ladies.. show some interest.. something.. it was a line intended as sparking *some* conversatino.. not some precanned nothing response..
Why should ladies show interest if they are actually not? that is the problem with the dating world from both sexes, being too nice. Thats how you go out, meet a girl who you think is into you, then find out she doesn't like you much and go home alone. Just because she was too nice to tell you off.

I mean usually jobs are not interesting, plain and simple. And usually a job is not your life, and if it is, your probably pretty boring (***or you have an awesome job!).

In social situations, especially interactions with the opposite sex, it is best to steer away from the typical banter. If your talking about your job, how can you expect any reaction other then "oh, thats nice...." Plus, it is more fun to leave it a mystery, it gives her something to wonder about and investigate.