For those not understanding Bebenn

The 30 Second Rule

When you speak to one or a few people, picture a traffic light. As you start talking, it is green during the 30 first seconds; your audience is listening and curious to know what you have to say. It is yellow during the next 30 seconds; the level of attention gets lower, people already see where you are going. Or they don't, in which case they would like to ask you to get to the point. When the light is yellow, you should think about stopping to let other people speak. After 1 minute the light is red; unless you see sparkles of interests in the eyes of your audience, stop right there, don't even think about adding one sentence

@Posh
If it took me slightly longer than the light to read this I would have pulled over and finished.

@Bebenn and Swiss.... my mom always told me if you dont have something nice to say keep it to yourself.