The women hot/men rich standard is a sign of social decline. Both are legitimate signifiers of a good mate, I suppose, but if this is what it ultimately comes down to, society is in a pretty sorry state. Wealth and attractiveness have always played a big role in determining marriages, but used to be bolstered by a lot of other factors (like family alliances or social position) that were unquestionably overconstraining and stifling (read any Jane Austen novel, for instance), but helped ensure social stability. Without it we are just a buch of atomized materialistic pleasure-seekers living in isolated little boxes and getting most of our pleasure digitally or chemically. Sad indeed...