And to the topic at hand, I do see where OP is coming from. Sometimes, this place drips with so much rancor, it can be intimidating for new members. A shame really, as the forum can really do with some traffic. But I wouldn't go so far as to suggest a name change. Granted, there are a few notably abrasive and opinionated members, but that's expected in a male dominated forum with a measure of Internet anonymity. You should read the cat fights them girls have on their forums! Ultimately, we can disagree without being disagreeable.