Posh, I am afraid the guy was ABSOLUTELY right. He paid for your time. Now that means that until you finish your drink or at least for 5 minutes after getting it you are obliged to talk to him. If you want to go immediately then NEVER take a free drink from a guy. To just go off straight after is uncivilised and rude and gives women a rep for being users and some men start getting very sinister ideas about ALL women. So do yourself and women everywhere a favour and do the right thing next time.
Sad to say, but this is more or less correct (although the guy could have been graceful about things). Think of any present in any context - how would the giver feel if after you got what you wanted, you immediately bolted for the door?Originally Posted by aksingh
And in a bar situation, if you buy a drink for a girl (which I consider daft if you don't know her - buying a girls time rarely ends well), you're not expecting a trip to her place, but at least the pleasure of her time. Given that he knew you had a fiance waiting upstairs, I get the sense all he wanted was some platonic company of a pretty lady - by accepting, you agreed to provide him with that.
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