Buy U A Drank: A drink (or gift) obligates a woman to what exactly?

[Posh]

Never assume a man's intention.....then again....I'm wrong.....men...we are mostly predictable...primal...easy to dissect and anticipate.

Maybe your friendliness was misinterpreted?....then again...maybe subconsciously, your instinct took over....you noticed a glance from a single man who was seated at an easy access to the bar....your ultimate goal was to get a drink. Cause and effect. Your glance or your standing behind him caused a cascade of events that led to him buying you a drink. Then your action of leaving him caused his outburst!

I wouldn't worry about it too much....Helen of Troy did a greater amount of damage...

Well, I'm still a Certified Financial Geologist (CFG) or in lay terms, no pun intended, a gold digger. I'm afraid that from time to time I revert back to what I was trained to do. LOL

But seriously, I can see your point.

Posh, I am afraid the guy was ABSOLUTELY right. He paid for your time. Now that means that until you finish your drink or at least for 5 minutes after getting it you are obliged to talk to him. If you want to go immediately then NEVER take a free drink from a guy. To just go off straight after is uncivilised and rude and gives women a rep for being users and some men start getting very sinister ideas about ALL women. So do yourself and women everywhere a favour and do the right thing next time.

Duly noted.

If I had known that I was supposed to be charging for my time, I would have at least asked for two drinks which . . .

That brings up a point......how much was the glass of Champagne that he picked up?

. . . brings me to this. That glass of champagne was almost $12 with tax, if not $12. It wasn't all that cheap and neither am I.

ok my point of view as guy.
you went wrong by taking that drink ...

if your with someone else do not take drinks from someone else.
guys buy women drinks so they can talk to them while they drink it. nothing else is expected from the drink except a talk, which THEN the talk can lead to something else.

If my girlfriend took a drink from someone else while i was with her ... id be very upset with her, I find that very wrong

I dont think the guy did anything wrong.

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Oh, Turbo. Even you think I was wrong? What is a thirsty b*tch supposed to do? I think it would be rude not to take it. What if he insisted? Just sayin'.