Quote Originally Posted by swissaddict View Post
LOL... a bit harsh, Novesh! And maybe a bit simplistic, too. I think this thread is more likely a result of fear of abandonment issues related to some irrational and maladaptive presumptions about the way things 'should' be. So let's have some compassion and be a bit more gentle


compassion? quid pro quo...on that topic.

But you hit it on the head with abandonment, irrationality and maladaptive presumptions.

A possible need to be in the spot light?

If marriage isn't for you, great! Stay out of the damn gene pool, PLEASE.